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Consider these 4 steps to start writing your story of significance.

1.Put Yourself In The Story – No one ever stumbles into significance – you have to be intentional in your daily action. Victor & Mildred Goertzel wrote a book Cradles of Eminence. They investigated the lives of 300 highly successful people. Here is what they found…

1. Three-fourths of them came from severe poverty and broken home relationships
2. Many of them experienced severe psychological drama being played in the home daily by their parents
3. Over one-fourth suffered physical handicaps such as blindness, deafness, and crippled limbs
4. “To dare, is to lose one’s footing momentarily. Not to dare is to lose oneself” – Soren Kierkegaard
5. If you are not in over your head, how do you know how tall you are? T.S. Eliot

2.Put Significance in Your Story – If you want to live a story of significance, do not wait until you become good – start now so you can become good. Everyone starts out bad regardless of what your are practicing for. We start however, so that we can become good.

1. In the Orlando Science Center there was a sign that read “Experiment – Experience – Explore.” DO NOT TOUCH is not in the vocabulary of significant people! Awesome!

3.Put Your Strengths Into your Story – In answering the question, “What is required to bring about a positive life-change to any community? Jim Collins responded with these three statements:

1. Can you be the best in the world at what you do? – Maybe or Maybe not! Can you be the best YOU in the world – ABSOLUTELY!
2. Are you passionate about what you are doing? Significance begins in the heart when we desire to make a difference.
3. Do you have the resources to change the world? Do you have the tools? You know doubt have many resources at your fingertips.

4. Stop Trying and Start Doing – “I’ll try my best” is a statement that we have all made at one point or another. What we are really saying is that I am going to try but I am not going to take responsibility for the outcomes. So here is the million dollar question: If we are going to live lives of significance are we going to succeed simply by trying? I don’t think so!

1. Trying does not communicate true commitment. It is half-hearted at best. It definitely is not a pledge to achieve a goal. It is another way of saying that we will make an effort.
2. An attitude of doing is powerful. Steven Pressfield writes, There is a force resisting the beautiful things in the world and too many of us are giving in.”

When you begin to get involved in making a difference in other people it is going to have a lasting impression and effect upon your life.

• Jim Rohn states one of the best places start to turn your life around is by doing whatever appears on your mental ‘I should” list.
• Action is what converts human dreams into significance.
• You will reaffirm your values – acting upon your values will clarify those values and make them permanent as a guiding priority.
• You will find your voice – taking action will give you confidence and you will begin to develop a moral authority with people.
• You will develop character – Passive people will allow their character to be shaped by others. Active people will take charge of their own character.
• You will experience an inner fulfillment – Contentment is found in being where you are supposed to be.

A butterfly cannot go back to being a caterpillar. When you start living a life of significance you will not go back!

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