Today is THANKSGIVING! My hope is that today will be filled with family, friends, and laughter. Most of all today is about recognizing thankfulness as the center-piece of the day. The holidays can be quite stressful for many people. Instead of family, friends and laughter, it has become dreadful, anxious, and depressing. Engage family and friends to list their blessings and use these as a time of reflection and joy.

Thanksgiving can be filled with a time of learning also. Here are some lessons from the Thanksgiving Table.

• Plan Well – Thanksgiving day is not a microwave day. Advance planning is needed.
• Keep Good People Around You – Life is pleasant in the presence of good company.
• Meet and Exceed Expectations – My childhood memories were ones of being wowed at the dinner table preparation. Best china, silverware, glasses all worked together to create an amazing visual.
• Establish Limits – Gluttony is not pretty. Set boundaries for yourself and stick with them.
• Keep Perspective – Emotions can run high on these special days. Lead from a position of calm and candor.
• Put Your Gratitude On Display – This is a day of thankfulness. Be a leader, communicate sincere thanksgiving to family and friends